Why You Must Not Marry While You Are Broke

Single bro, If you can’t afford a comfortable life that can accommodate two extra people … DON’T MARRY!

No matter the pressure or ridicule you get.

I used to believe you attract true love in a state of lack. I thought any woman who loved you at that point in your life must be genuinely in love.

I have discovered that I was both right and wrong.

True love could find you at your low point (very very rare), and you could also attract your likes. Someone who has been battered by pressure to get married.

Someone who is ready to do anything to get married.

If you are unlucky to get into marriage with someone in the latter category who can’t control her emotions and tongue ….you are a Christmas goat walking with your butcher!

Many married men are suffering in their marriage because they got in when they were not financially ready.

In a third-world country like Nigeria, love is not enough to keep the marriage going.

If you get married at this stage of your financial life, you will be setting yourself up for a lifelong marital war.

Your sanity and happiness are far more valuable than pleasing a group of people.

The world is a hard place for you already, don’t complicate your life with more baggage and bring children into the world to suffer like you.

1- Focus on Self-development. Acquire high ticket skills in your industry.

2- If you are an entrepreneur focus on building your business now by reinvesting more into projects because when you start a family, it will be tough to do so. A single guy, you can decide to go without food to save or not spend on luxury but your wife and kids won’t.

3- If you are an employee, aim for better-paying jobs and positions. This is the only time you have to take risks.

If your girlfriend or fiancée served you breakfast, my brother eat it, wash the plate and digest it.

Count it all joy.

You have been handed another wonderful opportunity to build a different life for yourself and with someone else!

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